Why midlife women still love the boy bands they grew up with


Boy band gigs are not just about good music and nostalgia, they are about celebrating longtime friendships, memories of choosing your favourite member, poring over magazines to find interviews and recording TV performances on your parents’ video cassette recorder.

Mode Entertainment’s Kang said boy bands have a unique appeal. “Unlike rock bands, where the spotlight is usually just on the lead singer, every single member of a boy band is adored,” he said.

“Fans know all their names and distinct personalities by heart. Plus, boy bands bring this amazing ‘forever young’ energy,” Kang added. “Seeing them pull off the exact same choreography and serenades decades later lets the audience step back in time and feel like teenagers again.”

These bands are the template for many K-pop groups today. The fact they’re still able to tour successfully is a testament to their longevity. Some of them are still releasing new music today, with varying levels of success.

A COMFORTING ESCAPE

Mention concerts by boy bands of old and one may conjure up images of lonely middle-aged women lusting after pop stars. This is so far from the truth.

Sure, we admire how these men have stayed in shape and still look good – but we’re not fantasising about marrying them like when we were younger.

Ruby Chow, 50, went to Las Vegas in December 2025 with her husband to watch Backstreet Boys, spending around US$850 for two tickets. She’s been a fan since the 90s and has seen them a few times in Singapore. She’s also going to Westlife’s Singapore concert in January.



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